What you invest your time in is what will appear in your life.
It is what will grow.
And how could they?
Alivia Latimer
Youve spent the last however many years living out the blueprint they sketched for you.
Is it any surprise that you feel empty and depressed, even though you have everything?
Thats the thing about miserable people who have perfect lives, theyre usually living out someone elses dream.
Healing your life is a process of becoming more radically honest with yourself than ever before.
Once you spend it, its gone.
Theres no depositing more.
But healing your life isnt just a process of shifting your priorities or your behavior.
At its core, healing your life is a process of healing your mind.
It is recognizing that everything youre experiencing is actually rooted back down into what and how youre thinking.
It is having the faith that you do not need to live your life by someone elses rules.
When empty, broken people look at you being wholly yourself, they arent going to applaud.
Its to live a life youre not dreading waking up to every day.
They are the ones who most desperately wanted others to love and approve and accept them.
Theres nothing you’re free to do to make someone want to love you if they dont.
That is what you get to control.
That is what you choose.
