venture to take care of your heart, as well as your body.
But first, let me tell you, I am not going to say any of those things.
I am not going to tell you that you made a mistake.
Bekah Russom
I am not going to slut shame you.
I am sorry that you were mislead, I am sorry that you are upset.
And I am sorry that, unfortunately, this happens in todays dating world.
Bekah Russom
Weve all been there.
Weve gotten too drunk, weve gotten caught up in the moment, weve gotten love-struck too quickly.
We needed a hook up, we needed to be close to someone physically.
We needed to feel love even though it wasnt love.
We were told that he cared, we were under the impression that this would go somewhere.
We thought that it was harmless.
Or we werent thinking at all.
Whatever happened, it happened.
And now he has pulled the ultimate douchebag move by not calling or texting you back.
Hes ignoring you, hes ghosting, hes indifferent towards your feelings.
I want you to know that you do deserve to be treated with respect.
You do deserve that call or text.
It doesnt matter if you hopped into bed too fast.
It doesnt matter if it was only sex to both of you.
It doesnt matter if you dont see potential in the relationship.
None of that matters.
Girl, if you need your hook up, go out and get it.
I support the hoe life, as long as youre being safe.
But just know that you are putting yourself at risk for heartbreak.
Youll tell yourself its only sex.
And hey, maybe it is!
But the bottom line is that your body is your temple.
You deserve to be treated with dignity.
So like I said, Im not going to tell you to learn a lesson from this.
Not good, right?
give a shot to take care of your heart, as well as your body.
Protect yourself emotionally and physically.
You rock and your awesomeness should be recognized with a follow-up.None of this is your fault!
The heartless actions of a guy cannot be blamed on you.
Just keep moving forward and know that not all guys are scum.
Yes, the majority may be.
But if youre smart, youll share intimacy with one who dials the day after.
