Accept the fact that their choice is out of your control.
I know this isnt an easy position to be in, whether itisyour fault or not.
If youre asking for forgiveness, I feel like youre coming from one of two places.
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At least, thats what Ive grown to learn from my own experience with forgiveness.
Read this when they wont forgive you.
Acknowledge whatever led to the situation at hand.
Dont place any blame.
Dont beat yourself up or talk down on the person involved.
When theyve chosen not to forgive you, you have to understand that their choice is beyond your control.
Hold yourself accountable, but dont hold yourself down.
You brought the possibility of losing the person involved on yourself.
You cant grow with anyone who doesnt trust you.
To be honest, without trust, the two of you never stood a chance.
Learn from this experience and take note of how to avoid this in your future relationships.
As hard as it might be, take this on the chin and learn from the experience youre having.
I know it might not feel like it right now, but all is not lost.
Promise yourself you wont willingly make the same mistake again.
Guilty or not, see to it you doeverythingin your power not to willingly be in this position again.
Having to accept the death of any relationship that is important to you will always be painful.
You dont want to repeatedly feel the way youre feeling right now.
You dont deserve that.
Feel better and do better.
All is not lost, my love.
