If your insides are consistently at war over the same relationship questions, what does that tell you?
Do you stay or go?
Is this itforever or just the thing for right now?
Natalie Allen
I believe these decisions can only come from a mutual agreement between your head and your heart.
But how do youknowand which do youlistento?
When your head speaks, it tells you all the things youneedto hear.
It helps you understandwhyyou do the things you do and how it’s crucial that you do them.
Your head is likely not your favorite voice to listen to.
Its boring and straightforward and, frankly, kind of rude sometimes.
Your heart, however, is another beast entirely.
Its not as straightforward, and it really fucks with your head occasionally.
It convinces you youre thinking things that you might not be.
It tells you to leap when you really need to stand firm.
Though I believe the heart has good intentions, its inability to process is its Achilles Heel.
Though your head might fully view a situation more clearly, your heart tends to win the argument.
Logic sounds impressive, but emotions will always get the better of you.
Should we allow that to be the case?
I truly believe there has to be a balance.
If your insides are consistently at war over the same relationship questions,what does that tell you?
It tells you that your head knows what you need and your heart knows what you want.
Your head might tell you that this is thelogicalperson for you, and your heart might feel something else.
Or your heart may feel thatthis is the one,but your head knows that better is out there.
Either way, if they can never agree, you might need to plan your exit strategy.
Our heads and our hearts are built to help us, made to guide us in these decisions.
In terms of moving forward, they wont always get along.
Just verify they are able to find a middle ground.
If it’s possible for you to do that, youre good to go for a while.
Your head and your heart are meant to help you, not hurt you.
see to it you are in a relationship where they have the space to do that.
Trust yourself, because deep down, you already know what you better do.
