You may feel a mix of hope and dread.
But mostly, you probably feel confused.
Why is he checking up on you?
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Was it an accident?
Does he want to reach out?
Is he just bored?
WHAT IS THE REASON???
But which one is it?
That is the question.
He was watching a bunch of stories at once and accidentally viewed yours.
He misses you.
He may miss you and what you two had.
He may have regrets.
He wants to keep tabs on you.
He may be curious how you spend your time now.
He may be checking to see if youre dating someone new and if youve moved on.
He wants to get your attention.
By now, we all know how Instagram works.
That said, the reasonwhyhe wants to get your attention may not be the purest of intentions.
He may want to trip you up or prevent you from moving on.
Or he might want to get you to reach out.
You cant read minds.
Do you feel pain?
Let those emotions be your guide.
If any uncomfortable feelings arise when you see his name, remove him as a follower or block him.
Theres no problem with doing that.
Ultimately, its about doing whats right for you and your healing.
