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Updated 5 months ago,November 19, 2024
Relationships are not easy.
There are going to be bad days.
There are going to be misunderstandings.
Paolo Raeli
There are going to be fights.
There are going to be nasty looks and rolled eyes andIm fines.
You cannot give up on your person because they rubbed you the wrong way once or twice.
You have to make compromises.
You have to say sorry.
You have to accept apologies.
You have to communicate.
You have to care.
Committed relationships need constant effort.
They need a shitton of work.
Even if you two are perfect for each other, there are still going to be arguments.
Even when you are pissed at them, you will not want to see them cry.
When you love someone, you never stay mad for too long.
Working out your problems seems like the only option.
You appreciate your person.
You value your person.
That is why you always make up with your person.
But you will never stop loving them.
You will never forget why you are with them.
You will never doubt the strength of your feelings.
Relationships are hard but loving your person should be easy.
It should come naturally to you.
It should be as instinctive as breathing.
You should be able to feel yourself relaxing the moment they walk into the room.
You should be able to sayI am the luckiest person in the worldand mean every word.
Loving them should be easy.
You should feel comfortable kissing them on the lips.
You should feel comfortable talking to them about your past.
When they are around, you should feel like you are in exactly the right place.
You should never assume relationships are easy but loving your person should be the easiest thing in the world.
