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Updated 4 months ago,December 24, 2024
You dont have to pretend youre emotionless.
After all, those people clearly arent right for you anyway.
If you want to send the first text, send it without overthinking.

Francesca Zama
Go with your gut.
Listen to your heart.
Believe it or not, relationships are supposed to be enjoyable.

Hold out for someone who encourages you to be yourself so you’re free to stop playing pretend.
You dont need to find the love of your life in your twenties or teens.
There is no age limit on love.
You dont have to stick to a specific timeline.
Remember, it’s possible for you to discover love in your thirties and beyond.
Your friends might have stumbled upon their partners early, but theyre not you.
Youre on different journeys.
Dont let the pressure get to you.
You dont need to keep anyone in your life who is making you feel bad about your situation.
Being single isnt worse than being in a relationship.
The right person will be on the same page as you.
Theyll hate modern dating too.
Just because you havent met this person yet doesnt mean they arent out there.
Theyre hoping to find you as much as youre hoping to find them.
Youre allowed to be frustrated.
Your messy feelings are perfectly normal.
Some people have a harder time finding love than others.
It doesnt make you any less desirable than someone in a relationship.
It doesnt make you any less worthy of love.
So feel free to rant about modern dating, but kindly, dont tear yourself apart in the process.