You might think his jealousy is cute at first.
You might think it shows how much he cares about you.
But that cuteness won’t last forever.
Camila Cordeiro
Soon, that jealousy will turn into controlling behavior.
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Updated 5 years ago,August 28, 2020
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The jealous guy.You might think his jealousy is cute at first.
You might think it shows how much he cares about you.
But that cuteness wont last forever.
Soon, that jealousy will turn into controlling behavior.
And if you dont listen to him, there are going to be plenty of fights.
Save yourself the trouble and avoid guys who are overly jealous at all costs.
The guy with a million crazy exes.Chances are, his exes were perfectly normal.
Even if you stay together, how do you think hell treat you when youre upset?
Will he take your concerns seriously?
Or will he assume youre actingcrazyand disregard your feelings completely?
The guy with a temper.You shouldnt have to tiptoe around his feelings to avoid setting him off.
You should be able to talk to him about how youre feeling without worrying about him exploding with rage.
If he cant control his emotions, hes dangerous.
Maybe not physically, but at least emotionally, and thats bad enough.
You dont want to put yourself in a situation where youre forced to lie to keep the peace.
You should feel comfortable in your relationship.
You should have the freedom to say whatever you should probably say.
It doesnt matter how perfect you are for each other.
It doesnt matter whether youre willing to give him everything hes ever wanted.
If he wants to hop from girl to girl, thats exactly what hes going to do.
Hes not going to delete his dating apps.
Hes not going to stop talking to his exes.
Hes not going to rise to your expectations.
So when he tells you hes not ready for a relationship, take him at his word.
Trying to change his mind is only going to end with a broken heart.
The guy who wants another mother.Youre not supposed to be babying him.
Youre not supposed to be cooking every meal and washing every dish and taking out every bag of garbage.
You are supposed to be equals.
Youre not his babysitter and youre not his mother.
If he never pitches in to help you with the chores, hes not worth your time.
Youre giving him much more than youre getting back from him, and thats unfair to you.
Your relationship should be balanced.
You should be putting in the same amount of effort.
He wouldnt have risked upsetting you in the first place.
He wouldnt have dared to hurt you.
He wouldnt have given you reasons to walk away.
