Have you found the girl of your dreams?
I can tell you this women love to communicate.
They love to give and take and share.
Derick Santos
Here are some ideas:
1.
I dont know what to do.
One time, my boyfriend and I were arguing about something.
I am not sure what.
I stormed out of the room and he didnt follow me.
These words instantaneously diffused my anger?
Because my boyfriend didnt know what to do.
He had no idea what to do.
Oh man, did I love him more for that.
That must be really hard.
What can I do for you right now?
Do you know thenail in the headvideo?
The camera pans out and we see that she has a nail in her forehead.
Her well-meaning boyfriend points out that, perhaps, if she removed the nail she would feel better.
This doesnt go over well.
She gets mad at him for trying to fix her when she just wants him to listen.
He does and she is happy.
So, next time your girl is upset, listen.
This is seriously one of the sweetest things that you to say to your girlfriend.
That will mean the world to her and she will know that she is important to you.
When I see you, my heart skips a beat.
We women have been raised on Rom-coms, admittedly not the best example of real life love.
One of the most important of those is that your heart skips a beat when you see us.
I know, in this day and age we dont want to put the emphasis on looks.
That being said, every woman wants to know that her man thinks that she is hot.
So, if you refrain from telling her girl that her physical appearance rocks your world, dont!
I am sorry I hurt you.
What can I do to make it up to you?
Apologiesare important in every relationship.
They can make or break even a happy one but they are often done incorrectly.
What do I mean?
Here is an example:
A man comes home from work late.
His boss kept him there later than he thought and he missed dinner with his family.
His wife is fuming.
He saysI am sorry BUT my boss kept me there and I figured that you would understand.
Any apology followed by a but immediately negates it.
One of the sweetest things to say to your girlfriend is actually something that you dont say but!
So, what makes up a good apology?
What can I do to make it up to you?
The most important part of an apology is acknowledging that you hurt someone.
Even if you feel like what you did was unavoidable, you still hurt them.
Acknowledging that and owning it will diffuse the situation right away.
And I do believe this idea to be true.
That being said, women need to hear it from you.
They need to have the words come out of your mouth and soak into their heart and their brain.
And dont forget, the most important one:I love you.
I know that you might think that she knows that one but she still likes to hear it.
So, go forth.
Let your girlfriend know that she is the one for you!
