“I can’t leave because we have too much history.”
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Updated 6 years ago,August 29, 2019
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You dont owe your person anything, simply because youve known each other for most of your lives.
Jonathan Borba
The last handful of years taught you a lot.
They brought you a lot of happiness and growth.
But if you arent happy anymore, its time to leave.
I cant leave because hessucha nice guy.Youre not required to have feelings for a good guy.
He might be perfect on paper, but you might not have any chemistry and thats okay.
Youre allowed to leave if you arent feeling any sparks.
But their opinions shouldnt matter more than your own happiness.
If your relationship isnt going anywhere, then its okay to stop putting on a picture perfect charade.
Its okay to change your relationship status on social media.
No one who actually matters is going to judge you for doing the right thing.
Its not nearly as bad as you remember.
I cant leave because I might not find anyone else to love me.Youre beautiful.
One person already fell in love with you and that wasnt a one-time thing.
Youre going to be in more relationships.
Youre going to find more suitors.
I cant leave because everything would change.Unfortunately, long-term breakups are messy.
If youve been with someone for a while, your lives are going to overlap.
That means the end of your relationship might mean the end of some friendships.
It might mean the end of your apartment lease.
It might mean the end of your playtimes with his dog.
But what youre gaining will be worth everything youre losing.
I cant leave because hes the love of my life.Love isnt everything.
Just because you have strong feelings for him doesnt mean youre supposed to spend forever with him.
If he doesnt respect you, you’re gonna wanna leave.
If you have different ideas for the future, you should probably leave.
If love is the only reason youre staying, you oughta leave.
Youll get through it and will come out even stronger.
