She doesn’t want to insert herself into your world if you don’t have room for her.
She only wants to be around people who want to be around her.
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Updated 7 years ago,January 4, 2018
She doesnt accept one-sided love anymore.
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She isnt going to force herself into your life.
She isnt going tochase after you.
She has too much dignity for that.
She doesnt want to insert herself into your world if you dont have room for her.
She only wants to be around people who want to be around her.
She doesnt put in effort when it is unappreciated anymore.
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She can tell whether you are excited about hearing from her or annoyed by her.
She sees your mixed signals and she knows what they mean.
They mean that you like her a little bit, but you dont like her enough.
They mean you are interested in seeing her casually, but not in dating her seriously.
They mean you are going to give hersomeof what she wants, but not all of it.
She doesnt misinterpretfuckboymoves as sweet gestures anymore.
Texting her after midnight isnt enough.
Liking her Instagram photos isnt enough.
Claiming that you miss her isnt enough.
If youreallymissed her, then you would make plans with her.
You would be there for her.
Not only in theory.
She doesnt put her heart on the line for just anyone anymore.
You have to be as interested in creating a concrete, stable relationship as she is.
She is tired of unmet expectations.
She doesnt let herself get her hopes up anymore.
It doesnt matter how much she likes you.
She is going to accept your words at face value.
She doesnt deal with less than she deserves anymore.
She wants a real relationship, not an almost relationship where the lines are unclear.
Not a friend with benefits relationship where sex is the only thing that matters.
Not a texting relationship where the flirting only happens over the phone.
She wants a committed relationship, a forever relationship and she is not going to settle for less anymore.
She is not going to put herself through heartbreak on purpose.
She is going to hold out for someone who meets her highest standards.
