She is allowed to change her mind, even if that means accidentally hurting someone in the process.
She is trying to test the waters, test your reaction, test the chemistry.
She cannot tell whether you are the one for her based on looks and a few back-and-forth texts.
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You might be perfect for her.
Or you might be toxic.
She is trying to figure out which one is the truth.
She is not purposely playing mind games with you.
She is not intentionally driving you nuts.
She is sorting through her feelings.
She does not want to rush into the wrong relationship.
She does not want to put herself through unnecessary heartbreak.
That is why she is going to take things slow with you.
She is going to pace herself.
She is going to take your relationship one step at a time.
She is the kind of person who wants to have meaningful conversations with you before kissing you.
She wants to know what she is getting herself into before becoming too invested in you.
She might stop flirting.
She might stop texting.
She might choose to fade away.
And that is okay.
She is allowed to consider her options.
She is allowed to get close to you and pull away.
She is allowed to change her mind, even if that means accidentally hurting someone in the process.
It does not mean she intended to play games with your heart.
It does not mean she is laughing behind your back about how hard you fell for her.
Chances are, she feels terrible about your almost relationship never becoming an official relationship.
She was never leading you on.
She was never trying to hurt you.
She was only looking for love and, unfortunately, she still has not found it.
She is still searching.
