Some things shouldn’t have to be said aloud.
She shouldn’t have to tell you she wants your attention.
She shouldn’t have to tell you to put effort into the relationship.
Blake Cheek
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Updated 6 years ago,February 14, 2019
She understands you cant read her mind.
Of course, getting flowers is not as exciting when she has toaskfor them.
Getting a new necklace is not as special when she has to direct you to the jewelry counter.
Having a three course dinner is not as romantic when she had to plan the entire thing.
She wants little gestures of love.
She wants reminders you care.
Once in a while, she wants you to set plans of your own.
She wants you to take initiative.
As cliche as it sounds,its the thought that counts.
You dont have to pick a perfect place.
You dont have to spend hundreds of dollars.
You dont have to stress yourself out over every detail.
You just have to put in effort.
You have to show her she is worth your time and attention.
You should not need an excuse to show her how much you care about her.
You should not wait until holidays to spoil her.
You should not wait until milestones to say those three little words.
You should not preserve your romantic gestures for Valentines Day and birthdays.
You should put effort into your relationship every single day of the year.
That doesnt mean you have to perform grand gestures so that keep her interested.
Little surprises can be the cutest surprises.
Her favorite candy bar.
A kiss on the forehead.
You are in love with her.
You should know what she wants by now.
You should know whether she would prefer a gift certificate for a spa or a tattoo parlor.
You should know whether she would be happier with a bottle or wine or six-pack of beer.
Ask her what she wants.
Ask her what would excite her.
Ask her how she wants to spend her weekends.
Most of the time, she is going to be happy to point you in the right direction.
She is going to tell you exactly how she feels.
She understands youre not a mind reader.
She understands communicating with you is going to save her a lot of trouble.
Of course, some things shouldnt have to be said aloud.
She shouldnt have to tell you she wants your attention.
She shouldnt have to tell you she wants to feel loved.
She shouldnt have to tell you to put effort into the relationship.
