A relationship is not an achievement.
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Updated 6 years ago,August 21, 2019
Get a degree.
Get a relationship.Get engaged.Get married.
Burst
Instead, we should be motivating people to find something theyre passionate about.
Evolve forward while learning to accept change rather than fight it.
Privacy can be the one thing to protect the special meaning behind a memory.
Share whats worth sharing with the people that mean something to you.
Share without expectation or comparison.
Still, currently, we focus more on capturing rather than experiencing.
Oversharing has led many to drown in self-comparison, wrapped in jealousy.
Engagement, wedding, and baby photos flood our screens as submissions to an assumed competition.
Its created an abundance of promoted information claimed to be shared with purpose.
What do we always say?
We treat the idea of marriage as an achievement required for success.
First, ask yourself what comes to mind when you hear the word achievement.
Perhaps there is a valid argument to mention the work that comes with a relationship.
In my opinion, not at all.
Because a relationship is not an achievement.
Companionship, love, and passion can grow into critical pieces that contribute to your well-being.
But their uniqueness deserves to be matched with a similar response.
The next time someone gets engaged, tell them how you feel.
Before you saycongratulationswithout thinking, take a second to think about how you feel.
Allow the time to register a real reaction and then share your thoughts.
Your achievements are a reflection of your personal goals in life along with the impact you have on people.
