Youre always asking him when hes free and moving your schedule around to accommodate him.
Because deep down you know you probably wouldnt see him for weeks otherwise.
Hell then change up his behavior to placate you.
Katerina Holmes
Essentially, he becomes the guy you wish hed be but not for long.
Eventually, he goes back to his old ways: treating you like an option, not his choice.
He talks about whats going on internally and confides in you about his problems.
He also seems to sincerely value your advice when it comes to his life.
This makes you feel as though youre building emotional closeness and you begin to feel invested in his well-being.
Youve never met his friends or family
You feel completely remote from the people he holds closest.
Youve never met any family or friends, even when youve expressed interest in meeting them.
In fact, youre not entirely sure they know you exist at all.
In other words, he forgot.
This shows he doesnt have the same connection to your time spent together as you do.
He knows youre a catch.
But you are better than that.
Dont be his confidence boost.
Indecision is a decision.
If he wont shut the door, you could shut the door yourself.
