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Updated 6 months ago,November 14, 2024
You deserve more than the bare minimum.
You deserve genuine interest, effort, and appreciation.
Your attraction is based on potential (not who heactuallyis).
Nana Lapushkina
You deserve someone who wants to treat you right from the start.
You want a partner, not a project.
Hes just sooooo busy.
Like, all the time.
Busy is a lazy excuse and honestly a deflection.
What hes really saying is youre not a priority.
Speaking of…
You initiate plans most of the time, but everything is still onhisterms only.
This means that its you doing all the legwork in planning while also catering to his ~busy~ schedule.
He sees you as an option, not a choice.
Its his way of giving you the absoluteleastwhile still being able to take credit for saying saw you.
He gets visibly uncomfortable when you bring up the future as it relates to your relationship.
Because he doesnt see a future with you in it.
He sees you as a placeholder.
He says things like, You deserve better.
This is not a compliment, it is a warning.
You deserve more than a bare minimum man.
