Despite the rabid fanbase, the 1993 Nora Ephron hit shows just how toxic a parasocial relationship can be.
I mean, should we really be rewarding Meg Ryans intense stalking?
Short answer: sure.
‘Sleepless in Seattle’
Need a reminder of this classic?
Enter the talk radio segment.
Jonah calls a talk radio helpline to see if anyone can help his dad find a girlfriend.
Thats where things get a little sticky.
Meg Ryans Annie is listening to this whole thing all the way from Baltimore, Maryland.
Like the rest of the women glued to their radios, shes immediately fawning over our good pal Sam.
Thats a big NOPE.
What follows is a masterclass in stalking.
Annie uses her connections at the newspaper to find Sams address in Seattle.
She hires a private detective to follow him and take pictures.
Parasocial relationships occur when someone feels a connection to a celebrity or other public figure.
Just like Sam had no idea who Annie was, Paul Rudd has no idea who you are.
In 2022, the dangers of parasocial relationships are even more prevalent.
Fans will find out where their favorite YouTubers live and just show up at their houses.
Actors will be stalked and sometimesmurdered.
All this to say: parasocial relationships are no joke.
Meg Ryans Annie falling in love with Tom Hanks Sam shows how easy it can happen.
It could be the proof a weirdo needs to justify their obsession.
Still, do we penalizeSleepless in Seattlefor it?
Becky: No, thats the weirdest thing about it.
