Take some time, do some research, try some different methods until you find what works for you.
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Updated 5 years ago,November 23, 2019
Life is a bitch.
Im not sure what just fucked you over.
Tobi
So yes, life is a bitch and that bitch can show up in all different ways.
Everyone is different and because of that, every situation is different.
I know this sounds so basic and overused, but its true.
Now think about your coping mechanisms.
Is it talking with friends, is it listening to music, is it writing?
Whatever it is, you better make some time in your life to do it.
Cause the longer you push it off, the longer it will take you to rebuild yourself.
NEWS FLASH to the world, everyone is different!
Not everyone copes the same and that is OK. One thing that sucks is that this is a timely process.
You most likely arent going to bounce back in a week or so.
You cant let time drag on and not work on trying to cope and heal.
I feel this will put you into even a further rut and screw up your life more.
So what do you want to do next?
Where do you want your life to go?
How do you want your life to be?
If youre like me, this probably changes every five minutes.
Thats ok, pick one place to start and get your foundation.
You may not even know, have zero clue.
My advice for this is to start researching.
What do you love to do?
What makes you happy?
Think outside the box and think around the box.
Dedicate time to the things that make you happy in life.
Begin with your happiness and well being and everything else will follow.
What if you dont have anything that makes you happy?
Get out there and try something new!
You dont know you love doing something until you do it.
Once you figure this out, make a plan.
Whether its hardcore deadlines or just a couple things youve brainstormed.
There are brighter days ahead of you.
I beg you, do not stay in whatever rut you are in.
Dont put yourself in a box, dont limit your capabilities.
There are people in this world that believe in you and are thrilled by your success in life.
Life is a beach so get out there and get covered in the sand.
