There is a guy for you in this world.
One human being who will show you all the ways you deserve to be loved.
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Updated 4 years ago,August 24, 2021
Love can hurt.
Sharon McCutcheon
It can be frightening.
Its the kind of gamble that is hard to win.
In every romantic relationship you had that didnt work, there was a lesson that you learned.
But also, one way or another, you felt the pain when the other shoe finally dropped.
Time after time, when someone came along, you couldnt help but wish that they were The One.
That this time everything would work out just fine.
And you wouldnt have to scramble and look out there again.
But relationship breakups end up shattering you.
They blur the idea of finding the right one.
So you put cages around your heart.
You dont participate in the dating game.
I know the idea of having a great love story sounds like a joke to you now.
Youre not cynical, but youre realistic.
You recognize that people are oftentimes disappointing, unreliable, and flawed.
But believe this:There is a guy for you in this world.
One human being who will show you all the ways you deserve to be loved.
And thats a good start.
A guy who will say it like it is.
And though that will put him in hot water sometimes, you will appreciate him for it.
You will be in awe of his vulnerability.
He will make it easy for you to work with him.
Because thats how love is supposed to beeasy.
He will not tell you words he thinks you will like to hear.
Hes smart enough to know that words are cheap.
But his actions will show you how much he cares, how much he likes you dearly.
And you will wonder where he has been all these times.
You will catch yourself smiling.
And slowly, you will allow yourself to feel again.
Someday a guy will be the reason why the monsters under the bed stop showing up.
He will admire your strengths and never once be intimidated by them.
And that will be the moment when you will let a guy shine on you.
Not because you need him, but because he makes you feel good.
And youre also a human being who deserves good.
Because to him, coming across someone like you is the best thing that has happened in his life.
And he will be a fool to let you slip away.
