It’s hard to move on when you are still wondering what could have been.
You shouldnt feel weird about grieving a relationship that never came to fruition.
You didnt need a label to make it fall hard for them.
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You are allowed to be upset.
You are allowed to consider yourself heartbroken.
Sometimes, its harder to get over an almost than to get over someone you actually dated.
When you end a serious relationship, there is a conversation, a clearcut ending.
When you lose an almost, the ending usually isnt as obvious.
They might distance themselves slowly.
They might stop answering your texts.
They might stop making plans to see you.
They might start seeing someone new.
It takes a long time to accept an almost relationship is over because you are never sure whether itisover.
You are never sure what is running through the other persons mind.
You know you broke up for a reason.
For every good time you shared with them, there were an equal amount of arguments.
You dont have that same reassurance with almosts.
Excitement is associated with them.
When you think of them, you think of butterflies in stomaches.
You think of smiles tugging at lips.
You dont have any hardcore proof your relationship would have failed.
Maybe you would have made a good couple.
Maybe you would have been perfect together.
Its hard to move on when you are still wondering what could have been.
You have no way of telling.
You havent gotten any closure from them and the questions are driving you crazy.
They are keeping your mind stuck on your almost.
Sometimes, its even harder getting over almosts than exes.
