It has more to do with another persons unresolved issues, hurts, wounds, fears and past experiences.
I mean who hasnt?
As a member of a community full of serial daters and commitmentphobes its par for the course.
Priscilla Du Preez
Dont take it personal, its just business as usual.
Initially you will be destroyed by someones infidelity.
The betrayal will be soul shattering.
Priscilla Du Preez
You will experience periods of disillusionment, anger, sadness, despair, hopelessness, numbness and hurt.
You will cry, shout, scream, break things, plot and scheme on ways to get even.
You will hide and run from anything that resembles love as it has killed before.
Your hurt reasonings will tell you that it will kill again.
Infidelity is a killer.
It kills feelings and beliefs.
It kills your faith in love and by extension your faith in God because God is love.
Those who have cheated on you have unwittingly tried to turn you into an emotional atheist.
It triggers old unaddressed wounds of abandonment and inspires the onset of fear to consume your life.
It is a juggernaut that wrecks your entire world and makes it hard to trust others.
The truth about infidelity is that it rarely has anything to do with you.
It has more to do with another persons unresolved issues, hurts, wounds, fears and past experiences.
Transforming your life into a sustainable entity is not achieved by restructuring someone elses booty walls.
So they keep themselves at arms length from the very ones who would have given them the world.
They continue to cheat themselves by distancing themselves from you emotionally.
They are not able to receive the infiniteness of your love because of their own personal beliefs about love.
To them love is disempowering, it makes them feel weak, threatened and afraid.
This warped perception of love keeps them from receiving your love.
They ultimately rob themselves of the vital nutrients they need to come full circle in their journey towards self-actualization.
Infidelity is a thief that keeps on stealing universal joy.
It perpetuates this ongoing cycle of pain and mistrust that now characterizes our world today.
When people cheat, they add to the fountain of universal distrust that we all drink from.
This wellspring of unwellness keeps the legacy of pain going.
Funny thing is some people are very vocal about the various injustices of the world.
Herein lies the truth about infidelity.
It is refractory contradiction to the goal of human progression.
