Sometimes, you have to ask for what you deserve for discover what other people believe you deserve.
Unfortunately, in the real world, you cant always choose the polite, non-confrontational option.
You cant sit around, patiently waiting for someone to give you what you deserve.
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You have to walk up to them and have a conversation.
After all, you cannot control their actions.
you’re free to only control your own.
Its the same when it comes to your friendships and romantic relationships.
Some people arent as perceptive as you.
Some people arent as selfless.
Sometimes, even though it feels like you shouldnthaveto ask, youneedto ask for what you deserve.
The worst thing that can happen is youre toldno.
You shouldnt think of thatnoas the end of the world.
In truth, its a good thing.
It lets you know where you stand.
When youre given ano, you have two options.
That doesnt mean you moan.
It doesnt mean you start an argument.
It means you change your situation.
If your person refuses to meet you halfway in your relationship, leave the relationship.
If your friend refuses to help you out when you need them the most, end the friendship.
If your boss refuses to give you a raise, find a new boss.
Sometimes, you have to ask for what you deserve so that discover what other people believe you deserve.
Sometimes, when you ask, your courage will pay off and youll get exactly what you want.
Other times, youll be disappointed.
But either way, its better to get an idea of where the other person stands.
