So when someone refuses to give you that closure, it’s crucial that you do it for yourself.
You close that chapter.
You dont give someone that opportunity to come crawling back into your life later on.
Brandon Woelfel
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Updated 4 years ago,June 12, 2021
Sometimes you have to create your own closure.
So many times Ive found myself disappointed by another failed relationship.
Its like the same story that keeps playing itself out.
And more times than not, it ends the same way.
With words that were never said.
We dont really even know if the chapters fully closed.
We lack the closure we need to move on.
I wont question it.
I will leave you alone.
And I will give myself the closure you refused to give.
Sometimes you just have to walk away.
You have to be the better person.
You tell yourself that they werent deserving of you.
That they were a coward.
When someone hurts us, we want closure.
We want a clean break.
We want to know where we went wrong.
But most of the time, in todays modern dating world, we dont get that.
We get led on.
We are left wondering where we stand.
But when someone does this to you, its about them, not you.
Cowardice is commonplace now.
Its a sad reality.
Closure is moving on.
It is realizing that you might do better and knowing that you dont need negativity.
Its realizing that you deserve happiness.
We can create our own closure.
So when you dont get the closure you want, just remember: sometimes they are capable of less.
So do more and create your own closure for yourself.
