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Updated 4 months ago,January 4, 2025
Starting from scratch is scary.
You dont want to leave behind everything that youve built with this other person.
But you should probably put your happiness above everything else.
Pablo Merchán Montes
Yes, starting over again will be uncomfortable.
It will put you in some awkward situations.
It will cause some tension and fights.
Things will probably get worse before they get better again.
You dont want your main reason for dating someone to beconvenienceorfear.
You have been through horrible times before.
You have the strength to make it through this, too.
You have the strength to make it throughanything.
Something that makes you proud.
Something that gives you the excitement that youve been missing.
If you rip off the bandage now, youll be able to begin again.
Instead of seeing this as a setback or failure, see it as an opportunity.
A blessing in disguise.
Starting over beats staying in the wrong relationship because you cant keep clinging to the past.
Its okay if you dont want the same things today that you wanted yesterday.
Its okay if you oughta take the selfish route and do what makes you the happiest.
Youre allowed to make choices for you.
No one else is going to.
There are going to be obstacles ahead, but youve surprised yourself before.
you’re free to do it again.
you’re able to make something out of nothing.
Remember, everyone has to start somewhere.
Do what will give you the best shot at happiness.
