Fear is whats keeping you in place.
You might not be happy, but youarecozy, so its tempting to stay.
Its tempting to ignore the voice in the back of your head warning you whats best for you.
Toa Heftiba
But staying when youre meant to leave isnt fair to either of you.
You dont want to get used to your own excuses.
You dont want to trick yourself into remaining somewhere where you arent happy.
Staying when youre meant to leave is disrespecting yourself.
Its putting yourself last on your list of priorities.
Its a slap in the face to all the hard work youve done throughout the rest of your life.
You didnt come this far only to throw in the towel now.
It will help you set yourself up for a life where youre genuinely happy.
Its hard to leave a relationship when theres so much uncertainty around what your future will hold.
But you are allowed to be selfish when it comes to love.
Youre allowed to make decisions that are going to lead to your own best outcome.
And so are you.
And for this other person.
You should never remain in a situation that isnt working for you.
After all, you deserve to be happy.
You deserve to feel like youre exactly where youre meant to be.
