Stop acting like you are such a screw up.
Stop telling yourself that you are unlovable, that you are undeserving of a serious relationship.
Stop thinking about all of the ways that you could have chased them away.
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Stop assuming that you must have done something wrong and that is why they left you behind.
You are not tooboring.
You are not too quiet.
You are not too fat.
You are not toougly.
You are more than enough.
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It is not your fault you had your heart broken.
You did not deserve to have your heart broken.
They couldnt see how intelligent you were.
They couldnt see what a catch you were.
They couldnt see the real you.
Stop complaining about howeveryoneleaves you soyoumust be the problem.
Stop acting like you are such a screw up.
Stop telling yourself that you are unlovable, that you are undeserving of a serious relationship.
You know that is total bullshit.
Deep down, you know that you did nothing wrong.
The truth is that you didnt fit each other well enough.
You werent right for each other.
You werent meant to stay together.
You are meant to be with someone who realizes how much you have to offer.
Someone who would cross the world for you.
Someone who wouldgiveyou their world.
Broken hearts happen to everyone.
They do not mean that you are lesser.
They do not mean that you are a bad boyfriend or girlfriend.
They do not mean you are destined to be alone forever.
They mean that you are human.
They mean that you took a chance and put yourself out there.
They mean that you were brave enough totry.
You will have plenty of chances to date again in the future.
There will be plenty of other people that you will fall for just as hard.
People who will actually deserve the effort that you put into them.
People who will actually see your worth and try their best to give you what you need from them.
Dont blame yourself for getting your heart broken, because you are going to be okay.
Your heart will mend itself.
You will love again and next time, your heart will stay whole.
