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Updated 1 year ago,January 16, 2024
Heres the real deal with so-called perfect girls.
Just because she has a career in her desired field does not mean she considers herself successful.
Just becauseyouconsider her perfect does not mean she views herself the same way.
The truth is, she has insecurities, just like everybody else.
She has experienced heartache and loss and grief when someone she loved left her to rot.
She has doubts about whether she is walking down the right path or has fallen off track.
She has questions ping-ponging through her mind all day long.
Perfect girls are playing a part.
They are smiling when people expect them to smile.
They are laughing on cue.
Before sleep, they replay embarrassing moments in their head.
They worry about what is coming tomorrow.
They run through the worst case scenarios.
The let their insecurities eat them alive.
They arent where they want to be yet.
They have goals they are still trying to reach.
They have dreams they arent evencloseto accomplishing.
They struggle with self-love, just like everybody else does.
They dont realize how valuable they are, even if they are reminded of their worth every single day.
They dont see the beauty in themselves that everyone else sees.
The reality is, perfect girls have insecurities, too.
They just hide them better than most people.
She just wishes others would realize that her perfect life did not come naturally to her.
She worked her ass off to reach the place where she is standing today.
She did not get her success handed to her.
She had to fight for everything she has, no exceptions.
But your relationship with her wont be authentic.
You will be killing her inside.
You will slowly chip away at her self-worth.
You will make her feel like she isnt enough.
You cant think of such a one-sided relationship as perfect.
it’s possible for you to have a casual relationship.
you’re able to have a serious relationship.
But you cant have a mixture of both.
You cant continue playing the field while she sits at home, wondering when you are coming back.
You cant consider yourself single and consider her taken.
You cant act that hypocritical.
You shouldnt be searching for a girl who lets you trample all over her heart.
A girl who is crazy about you, but you feel lukewarm about.
A girl who you could easily hurt but she wont hurt you.
A girl who lets you have all the power.
Thats not fair to her.
You should be searching for a girl with high standards.
A girl who wont let you walk all over her.
A girl who does more than make you orgasm.
A girl who makes you laugh.
Who makes you feel at peace.
Who makes you feel the most yourself.
Change your version of what aperfectgirl looks like, because you are looking for the wrong thing.
They are the girls who make deprecating jokes about the features they hate the most about themselves.
They are the girls who areauthentic.
Who are never apologetic.
Who know exactly who they are and are happy being themselves.
These girls realize they are far from perfect.
They are determined to do better every damn day.
But they have learned to accept the things they have no control over.
They arent going to waste their time whining about the way they were born looking.
They know beauty comes in many shapes and forms.
These girls realize they are not perfect.
They are comfortable with who they are.
They areproudof who they are.
They never let someone elses incorrect opinion of them sway their opinion of themselves.
They never let their worth get defined by outsiders.
Perfect girls are the ones who realize they are only human.
There is always going to be something they dislike about themselves.
There is always going to be a nasty voice inside their head, telling them they are not enough.
But these girls push that voice into the background.
They believe in themselves.
They believe theyaregood enough.
Even though they are not the technical definition of perfect, they are the perfect version of themselves.
They are perfect to the people who love and cherish them.
And they are going to find someone who is perfect for them.
