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Updated 6 years ago,November 25, 2018
You are not in the right relationship.
You have sensed your own unhappiness for a while.
But you havent give up on him because you keep making excuses for him.
Jesse Herzog
You place the blame on yourself.
No matter how horribly he treats you, you find a reason to forgive him.
You let him get away with every single mistake because you are too scared to let go.
Do yourself a favor and stop making bullshit excuses so you might continue loving him.
Stop acting like all of the terrible things he have done are fine.
They are not fine.
you should probably admit that to the universe and to yourself.
You cannot continue rationalizing his behavior as an excuse to remain inside of your comfort zone.
Yes, leaving him will be tough.
You might struggle to find a place to live after you pack your bags.
You might lose friends who take his side during the breakup.
You might not find someone else to fill the empty side of your bed for a long time.
But you cannot keep making excuses to remain inside of your relationship.
You cannot insult yourself by settling.
Stop making excuses for him.
Stop acting like it is your fault every time he makes a mistake.
He should be held accountable for his actions.
He should learn there are consequences to his actions and the worst consequence is losing you.
