it’s crucial that you remember your worth.
you oughta remind yourself of how much you have to give and how little you have gotten in return.
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Updated 7 years ago,November 19, 2017
Stop putting effort into a one-sided relationship.
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Stop giving him everything when you know damn well you will continue to get nothing in return.
Stop texting him first when there is a bigger chance he will ignore you than answer back.
Stop suggesting times to hang out because you know that he will never do the planning himself.
He hasnt earned such special treatment.
If he is only giving you 20% you shouldnt overcompensate by giving him 80%.
You shouldnt treat him like he is already your boyfriend when he still treats you like some random girl.
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You shouldnt reward him with the same things that he is unwilling to give you.
Up until this point, youve been far too kind because he keeps giving you breadcrumbs of affection.
Little signs that show his interest.
And that keeps you hanging on.
That keeps you thinking that you have a chance.
That he likes you, too.
That its only a matter of time until you become an official couple.
As a sign that he doesnt care about youhalfas much as he should.
As a sign that you are the one who is more invested.
He doesnt appreciate what you do for him.
If he did, then he would show respect by answering your texts on time.
By showing up when he promised he would.
By doing you favors without being specifically asked.
He wouldnt be stringing you along like this.
Do the smart thing and stop putting in effort because you are wasting it on the wrong person.
Stop putting in effort because he is not worth it.
Deep down, you already know that.
