Start believing that you could have the best relationship after you have learned to be independent and completed yourself.

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Updated 7 years ago,December 24, 2017

Stop convincing yourself that you cant be alone.

Stop hurrying your heart that you tend to give yourself to someone after giving you simple romantic gestures.

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Yaroslav Blokhin

Stop having worries that no one will ever fall for you.

Stop chasing that far.

Stop being jealous of some couples around you.

girl at a record store

Yaroslav Blokhin

Stop being bitter during Valentines Day.Stop doubting your capability of independence.

Start believing that you’re free to live happily without being in a romantic relationship.

No doubt, having someone who can satisfy your need for intimate affection is really good.

Its a source not just of happiness but also of pride.

But hey kill the thought that you need it.

you’ve got the option to survive without it because all you need is yourself.

If you find a soulmate, then consider it just a bonus added to your strongly founded life.

It takes an arduous determination for you to achieve that independent happiness.

It is meant to be learned until it becomes natural to you.

You dont have to limit your time for your friends or your family.

you’re free to relish the whole day or week doing what you love the most.

Start believing that you might learn the most about life without being in a romantic relationship.

If you are in a relationship you are often preoccupied by your partner and the relationship itself.

You miss a lot of happenings that you could appreciate as an individual.

And most importantly, you learn how to handle things alone without the need to lean on somebody else.

Its only you who can help yourself in the end.

And those are the things you would never want to waste on the wrong person.

If you are in a relationship, then I am happy for you.

I just hope that whatever happens, you do not lose yourself.