Perhaps this is it.
This is how you jumpstart your way out of his twisted games.
Enough of all the mourning.
Carly Rae Hobbins
Too much drama is exhausting.
Get up, wear your stilettos and give those boys a taste of their own medicine.
Be confident.
Carly Rae Hobbins
Confidence is sexy, but on a limited basis.
Try not exceed the certain level.
Make use of your charm and flaunt it to stand out among the rest.
Tickle his ego, stab him later.
Practice this by keeping the communication going.
Meaning, ask more and share a little less.
yo do not disclose disorienting details too soon says Ellen Kreidman, author ofLight His Fire.
Early-stage TMIs is a major turn-off for most males.
Dress to cop a feel.
Take note, less is more.
Dont offer too much youd know he could perfectly handle.
Give him the impression of wanting to watch you closely and keep you inside his game.
Let the dopamine level in his brain fuel up out of mad curiosity.
Alas for him, its not what you are dressed for.
Conceive and conceal.
Play it cool and keep it low key.
Let it flow smoothly.
If you say something, create it with a huge impact.
When you reveal something thats truly weighty, hell feel like hes earned your trust.
Then keep it going.
Ride on his jokes or flirt with him over the phone.
Appreciate every sweet gestures as if youve never encountered that before.
Play hard to get.
Inflict him with anticipation.
Allow him to simmer wondering what youre doing writes Sherry Argov, author ofWhy Men Love Bitches.
Wait and dont initiate the second date.
Dont do what you are expected to do.
Give him a week or two to reel or count one to four before you return his call.
A little tap on the back and youre good to go.
Let him chase you for saying no.
Manipulate his overrated genre.
Another thing, never assume.
Instead, let his words trip down on its own wickedness.
when he gives you butterflies, give him bees and let them sting.
Know when to paint the code red.
You dont have to close a deal.
The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.
Look for your way out when hes trying to get into your way.
Remember the platform is yours, take control.
Be your own epitome of the saying Men control the world, but women control the men.
Stage it neat.
Remember to detach yourself from your target zone.
Your goal is not to be like any other woman in his life before you.
Act as if you have no idea of what youre doing.Live by your own rules.
Set the competition.
Pretend and show interest on few of his acquaintances without making it too obvious.
This will give him a punch in his ego.
Reap your rewards by once again flexing your independence unattached from his side.
Be authentic.
Suit up, maintaining your own life acts like claustrophobia kryptonite.
Boys unlike men, they connect the dots in reference to their exes.
So dont be anything like them.
Stand your ground and let him reach out to you.
Hell find himself out of his zone just to get close to you.
Learn the unspoken language.
By that, I mean the body language.
Well, this is crucial, but thats the hype of modern dating.
So, catch up.
A little desperation in a guy actually builds a character.
Tease but dont overdo it.
Dont get too close to a seriously rookie move.
Keep a distance and let him come to you.
Be the predator of any situation writes Kiersten White, author ofMind Games.
Boys, they dig for thrill.
Dont spoil it by giving the him an effortless deal.
Keep it classy.
I repeat, keep it classy.
Be a woman with attitude and grace.
Changing the game doesnt require you to be slutty.
This was made for you to maneuver the process.
Perhaps this is it.
This is how you jumpstart your way out of his twisted games.
Good luck, ladies!
