Its going to answer all of your lingering questions.
Its going to give you the chance to say a proper goodbye.
Maybe it will even open up the door to a friendship.
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Maybe you will be able to stay civil and stay friends and forget whatever bad blood exists between you.
But most people arent going to be that lucky.
Most people need space.
You will be tempted to chase after them again.
Or worse, you will remember why you were so angry with them in the first place.
They will cause you unneeded stress you should have left behind you.
They will make you angry with them and angry with yourself.
At least for now.
Maybe you’re able to reunite in the future.
Maybe your friendship doesnt end here.
Or maybe it does.
Youre going to continue to rely on them.
it’s crucial that you say goodbye.
you better take away your ability to message them in a moment of weakness.
you should probably erase them from your world, wholeheartedly.
If you dont stop texting them, then you could end up falling for them again.
You could end up right back at square one.
Remember, removing someone from your world doesnt mean you suddenly hate them.
It doesnt mean they have suddenly stopped mattering to you.
It doesnt mean what you once had together is meaningless.
Unfortunately, sometimes the hardest thing to do is the best thing to do for both of your hearts.
Sometimes to get to move on you’re gonna wanna give a permanent goodbye.
