He wants you in his world – but only halfway.

Only enough so that he doesn’t feel trapped.

Only enough so that he stays comfortable.

A girl who has been texting

God & Man

He repeatedly tells you how much he misses you.

From the look of his texts, he has feelings for you.

He sends you heart emojis.

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He calls you cute.

He flirts with you like crazy.

Whenever you talk, thesexual tensiongrows stronger.

A girl who has been texting

God & Man

It sounds like he wants a relationship with you except you never actually meet up in person.

Whenever you ask if hes free over the weekend, he has a reason why he cant see you.

You wish your schedules would line up better.

You wish he would rearrange his plans to make time for you.

You dont understand why you have been texting for this many weeks now and nothing has come from it.

It just doesnt make sense.

In your mind, he has been sendingmixed signals.

But there is a rational explanation for his behavior.

He keeps flirting with you over text because he likes you.

He likes hearing from you.

He likes bantering back and forth with you.

He likes the attention you give him.

But he never sees you in person, because he also likes being single.

He likes having his options open.

He likes keeping you at arms length, because he doesnt want to get too close.

He doesnt want to turn you into his girlfriend, because he isnt interested in a serious relationship.

He likes you, but he doesnt like you enough.

Not enough to make you happy.

Not enough to give you what you need.

Not enough to date you.

You cant accuse him of cheating on you orleading you onbecause you never even saw each other in person.

He only talks to you over text because he wants you in his world but only halfway.

Only enough so that he doesnt feel trapped.

Only enough so that he stays comfortable.

He only talks to you over text because he doesnt want the same things you want.

He isnt interested in dating you.

He wants to keep things the way they are.