Refusal to admit they have done anything wrong.

Constantly positioning as the victim.

Deluding themselves by twisting reality so they never have to honestly look at themselves.

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1.Always wanting you to be there for them but not returning the favor.

2.Refusal to admit they have done anything wrong.

Constantly positioning as the victim.

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Deluding themselves by twisting reality so they never have to honestly look at themselves.

3.Putting the other person down when theyre interested in/excited about something.

5.Inability to communicate problems without yelling or insults.

6.Being mean and full of yourself.

The idea that one person is the prize and the other person is lucky to have the other one.

7.Not having your back when people are talking shit about you.

Were supposed to be a team, act like it.

9.When you realize there would be no plans, unless you are the one to initiate them.

10.The inability to do nothing.

As someone who is an absolute master of doing nothing, this just drove me crazy.

11.Someone who is always complaining.

It could be about the smallest things or really big things.

12.Not having opinions on things.

On some stuff… you should know where you stand.

If there isnt complete transparency and trust at all times, there isnt a relationship.

14.Talking disparagingly about exes.

I dont mean complaining about little things, but just ragging on them.

If its always the other persons fault, its probably yours.

15.Intentionally causing a fight because they enjoy the making up period.

16.Neediness, when someone expects you to answer them asap and ALL THE TIME.

17.Claiming to want to better themselves in areas that are important to you, then never ever doing it.

18.Telling your friends things that shouldve been kept private between the two of you.

19.Being selfish in bed.

22.For me its a lack of understanding that I need time to myself.

When Im in a relationship Ill do just about anything I can to make her smile.

But sometimes I just need 30 minutes on my own to relax.

23.Taking everything too serious.

25.Chewing so damn loud as if theyve never had food before.

26.Constantly talking about sex and nothing else like youre some teenager high on hormones.

27.Littering or being rude to service staff.

I will straight up end that relationship right then and there.

28.Too much talking and no listening.

Both are insufferable qualities.