The mental load is real yall.
3.Being able to take care of someone whos under the weather.
4.I love it when men are able to genuinely and unashamedly express when they think something is cute.
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My ex could to it and it was so cool.
Especially since he could French braid and its so exhausting to do those yourself sometimes.
7.Standing up to others (particularly mates) who are being assholes.
Having a strong moral compass, empathy and selflessness is seriously sexy.
It shows that they can be dedicated to something and thats really attractive IMO.
A man who can dance and do it well will generate a lot of interest from women.
If a woman is watching a man dance, odds are she is dancing as well.
So those feel-good post-workout tingles also work in the guys favor.
It shows confidence and it tends to insinuate wealth (since dancing is not a survival skill).
10.Financial sense, and (sensible) frugality.
(All things I expect us to share the responsibility of.
Granted, Im a long-haul kind of person.
11.Does the ability to be self-aware count?
Its an opportunity to show humor, quick thinking, and vulnerability.
15.Being able to take constructive correction without taking it personally.
Im not trying to tell you you arent good.
Im just trying to help you take the next step.
You want to serve me?
Hey thanks so much for listening and letting me rant to you.
Hey that thing you did to my breasts last night?
Suck my clit at the same time and Im golden.
16.Being able to competently drive a stick shift.
Theres just something about it.
17.Good memory for details, like remembering what your favorite food is, what things you like… 18.If a guy is good with kids its attractive as hell.
19.Goal-oriented planning and teamwork.
Makes me feel like we can tackle anything together.
20.Being able to fix things and build things.
Also the ability to build furniture and whatnot is hot.
Whats not to love about a man who can bring fresh free produce to the table!
No babe I do not want some delicious fresh green beans with my dinner said no one ever.
23.Im an artist so art skills or even just an appreciation for art turns me on.
24.I have a weird one: being able to reverse into parking spots effortlessly.
I dont know why, but I melt whenever my boyfriend does this.
He just seems so confident driving backward.
Not just two languages but fluent or conversational in around three.
26.Treating fast-food workers and grocery workers with kindness.
Basically treating everyone with respect and kindness.
That is so attractive to me.
27.I love seeing a guy be dextrous with his fingers, like playing piano or assembling/painting miniatures.
It shows finesse and patience.
28.Being able to give a good massage.
30.Someone who can care for themselves.
Take a shower, clean up your own mess.
There are so many guys who dont seem to realize this.
I just wanted to get it out there.
