A key part of getting what you want is knowing what you want.
But many of them dont know if they have it in them to do so.
Imagine yourself at Starbucks.
Chris Sowder
You know you want that Iced Caramel Macchiato.
And then you get a hot one.
Its the same in life and in relationships.
If you know that you are unhappy about something, ask yourself why you are unhappy.
Many of usdont believe that we are worthy.
Imagine that you know what you want, that you have defined it precisely.
And then picture yourself asking for it.
How does that feel in your body?
Does it feel good or do you have a big pit in your stomach?
Ask yourself what that pit means.
Does it mean that you feel like you dont deserve what you want?
Does the idea of asking for it fill you with dread?
Honesty
The punch in of person who gets what they want is someone who is honest.
Think about when you want your partner to stay home and they want to go out.
You dont speak up, and out they go.
How do you feel then?
It is important that you are honest with whomever you are dealing with.
People cant read minds, and if you want something, you have to tell them.
There are two people in every transaction, and both of them have needs that need to be met.
Compromise is, of course, an option, but you cant compromise without information.
Would you be willing to work on making someone else happy ifthey yelled at you?
If we do so, we can get what we want.
I know that you are thinking about that person you know who always yells and gets what they want.
Let me ask you, do you like that person?
Does anyone like that person?
I am guessing not.
Their loud words get them what they want, but they offend people every time.
Knowing what pop in of person gets what they want is the key to being happier in your life.
Imagine feeling that way.
you might do it!
Work to cultivate the personality traits on my list and you live the life that you have always wanted.
