Youve grown together, but you are at an impasse now and you both feel it.
Youve grown together, but you are at an impasse now and you both feel it.
You cant grow much more together anymore.
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You know its time, but its still hard.
Letting go emotionally after someone has left or a season has ended can be hard for various reasons.
Here are five real reasons why letting go emotionally is not as easy as you want it to be.
You may not feel safe to let go what if this is your best?
Letting go brings about questions like none other.
It brings about so many uncertainties about the next steps.
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But just think, what kind of adventure would life be if we all knew?
Besides, what is safe anyway?
Every decision is a complete risk, just different kinds of risk potentials.
However, it still takes time.
We accept letting things go better in doses.
It was announced in public, but dissolved in private
3.
You are looking for clues that things were heading south.
You wonder what could have changed.
What you could have done differently.
It breaks your heart but you wonder if it was your fault in any way.
You still see what could have been.
You keep hoping for what you are imagining to be what you are experiencing instead of the reality.
c’mon, pinch yourself.
The sooner you realize this, the sooner you will be able to process this and heal.
you oughta know that both parties are human.
You are not a failure and you have not failed just because you gotta say goodbye.
Relationships dont all last forever the way we want to say they do and will.
Sometimes good people stop seeing eye to eye; sometimes its just time to let go.
Highs and lows are what mountains and life are made of.
Maybe you knew it was coming, maybe you didnt.
Either way, it hurts.
You dont want to have to process.
You still think you could change their mind.
So you hold on.
You keep texting, you keep praying, you keep hoping, and you keep hurting.
You know you have to let go, but its almost like acknowledging it makes you hold on tighter.
Teach yourself to breathe, and to release slowly.
Let them go because they want to go.
Real love is never forced.
Choose to trust the process.
Healing is rarely pain-free or quick.
Lean into what you are experiencing, and then take steps beyond what you are feeling.
Because you cant live there.
And if theres anything we need you to do, its the keep living.
Let go, slow and steady.
One day, the pain of the memory will fade… though the memory never will.
You will notice that you havent faded with the pain.
You will see that you are made of more than you have ever known.
