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Updated 6 years ago,July 30, 2019
How many people out there have been cheated on?
How many people reading this have had a feeling their partner is cheating?
Thinking about things in hindsight can help us in the future.
Naomi August
It doesnt help or protect us from experiencing it.
Being cheated on sucks.
Thinking youre being cheated on also sucks.
Either way, its psychologically taxing.
Given these statistics, it is important to know both the subtle and unsubtle signs of cheating.
This does not mean that if your partner displays one of these signs that they are cheating.
Something else is usually holding someone back from taking the relationship to the next level.
They may look over your shoulder at what youre looking at.
Your partner may have loved your natural look.
They may start criticizing your clothing or things you do.
They may suggest ways to improve your appearance even though they never did before.
Your annoying flaws dont phase them anymore
Face it, we all have flaws.
Youre not perfect and neither am I.
Some of our flaws are what make us unique and your partner agreed with that for some time.
They may have become irritated by your nervous laugh.
Or they may have rolled their eyes when you would crinkle your forehead.
Whatever the flaw is, there no longer react to it and often goes unnoticed.
You and your partners sex life changes and decreases
Yours and your partners sex life may become stagnant.
This helps alleviate the guilt or shame they feel.
It also can serve as a justification for their wrongdoing.
Theres a sudden change in communication
Do they still text you as often as they used to?
Are the texts becoming less frequent?
Are their words in a text message suddenly different or changed from a month ago?
If there is a change, when did it start?
If communication has changed with a sudden onset, its likely theres a reason why.
Only you are the expert of your relationship from your side of things.
Everyone is different and may display different behaviors or emotions when or if they are cheating.
The list above are the usual ways to tell if someone is cheating.
We usually get gut feelings for a reason.
Dont be like the many of us who, in hindsight, saw many of these signs.
