Its not about being selfish its about making yourself a priority in your life.
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Updated 7 years ago,July 21, 2018
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When you respect yourself youll meet someone who respects you.
Inna Lesyk
When you love yourself youll meet someone who loves you unconditionally.
When you admit what you want, youll attract a person and the relationship that is that.
Its okay to admit you want a relationship or something serious.
Inna Lesyk
We are in a generation that wants to downplay everything and keep things casual.
When you focus on your needs first youll be able to provide someone with theirs.
There is an African saying which is be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt.
When you care enough about your dreams and goals youll attract someone who pushes you to achieve them.
Thats what makes you attractive.
When you are kind to yourself youll attract people who are that genuine.
When youre honest youll find someone who cant lie to you.
There are so many people who are lying and dishonest and tell you what you want to hear.
Just be wary of the way you talk to yourself because thats the way people will talk to you.
When you commit to the things that make you happy, youll find someone to share that with.
When you figure out who you really are, youll find someone who wants to know you better.
We are all trying to discover who we are and what we want in life.
But once you figure it out dont try and hide it or be ashamed.
When you learn fights dont mean someone is leaving youll find solutions.
Understand that its healthy to fight in relationships.
When youve experienced toxic relationships though, people associate fighting with endings and then fear someone leaving.
When you try a little harder for someone the right person will match your effort.
And youll be blown away by what it feels like to have someone who tries as hard as you.
Even if you get hurt dont change who you are because of pain and disappointment.
When you let down your guard that connection is vital.
When youve gotten hurt a lot its normal to be guarded and push people away.
When you become the best version of yourself you attract someone at that level.
Get yourself to a point where you are really proud of the person you are.
Its okay if you are not there yet.
Its okay to admit you gotta work on yourself a bit.
When you let go of the past you let someone in who wants to be in your future.
Stop thinking your ex-was the best thing in your life.
The best person in your life might not even have happened yet.
Thats something to look forward.You heal from the past when you embrace something better.
