‘Wanting’ to get over him is not enough.
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Updated 8 years ago,August 28, 2017
Wanting to get over him is not enough.
you’ve got the option to wish upon a star and hope that you magically forget about him.
Allef Vinicius
you might try yourone last timethat youll meet him, see him, text him.
That you cannot do without him.
That you need closure before you might move on.
Allef Vinicius
That it’s crucial that you slowly ease him out of your life.
That while it wont happen today, it will eventually.
The brutal truth about moving on is that you have to just do it.
There are no magical fixes or instant solutions.
Everything else is just an excuse.
You dont need to care if youll hurt him if you suddenly cut off contact with him.
Moving on is for yourself and you have to do it because you decided enough is enough.
For once, youre going to think about yourself first.
Youll look after your own self-interest.
Youll do what is best for you.
Youll not take the easy way out.
Because there has to be a point when youre tired of trying so hard.
When tears have replaced your smile and you feel miserable everyday.
When you become a shadow of your former self that you couldnt recognize yourself.
You are worth so much more than that.
You are worth more than a sorry from a boy who strings you along for months.
You are worth more than being an afterthought and someone he finds only when hes bored or needs something.
Once you let him go, the right person will come.
When you let him go, youll find the happiness you need from yourself.
Because there is nothing more painful than loving someone who couldnt love you back.
It is better to move on than to cling on stubbornly to revive a dying love.
It is better to be single than be in a non-existence relationship that makes you feel even lonelier.
You deserve so much better than this.
Thats why you cannot justwantto get over him.
You have to do it.
After you take the first step, only then can happiness belongs to you.
