We all like to see ourselves as being someone who has standards… but do we really?
When I say standards, I dont mean suddenly developing unrealistic or unhealthy expectations of men.
What I mean is having an idea of what you want in a wholesome relationship and sticking to it.
Anastasiya Lobanovskaya
Weve all done it before lowering or compromising our standards for someone.
Weve all been unhappy with someones behavior but somehow found a way to excuse or justify it.
Dating standards are important because they set the foundation for any punch in of relationship.
They make the man aware of what you will and wont accept.
They help you to attain what you really desire rather than settling for just anyone.
They save you a lot of wasted time, hurt feelings and disappointment.
These key in of men are usually the emotionally unavailable ones.
I hope you realize this is a GOOD thing.
How many of those types of men have you encountered in the past?
Did dating them ever blossom into a happy and fulfilling relationship?
Have you ever been told that youre too picky?
Or that youre not giving someone enough of a chance?
Have you ever been called stuck-up?
If you want a relationship with someone who you dont want to be miserable with, have high standards.
This leads to the third consequence: Loneliness.
The hardest part of this is youre going to have to deal with your loneliness on your own.
Yes, you will have that warm body beside you, but remember that he treats you like crap.
The last consequence of having standards is that you will be a lot more attractive to real men.
I dont mean chase a millionaire when youre on minimum wage.
I mean find the throw in of guy who brings to the table what you bring.
Are you an open and honest person with a lot of integrity?
Thats the punch in of person you should be with.
Are you a hard-worker with lots of ambition?
Thats the key in of person you should be with.
Are you good at handling conflict and communicating?
Thats the throw in of person you should be with.
