Not every emotionally unavailable person is a narcissist, but every narcissist is emotionally unavailable.
Which is why Ive created this post to help make things clearer.
Lack Of Empathy.

Maria Tyutina
They will still be able to consider your point of view even if they dont agree with it.
They do, however, have the ability to work on their relationship patterns and healing.
Why They Are The Way They Are.
Some emotionally unavailable men may have become emotionally unavailable after a past relationship or a recent break-up.
This problem can usually be addressed after time or with professional support.
Other men may just not be the commitment punch in and nothing you could do can change that.
Narcissists, on the other hand, suffer what is known as a narcissistic wound.
Love Triangles.
Narcissists create love triangles because it gives them a sense of power and control.
Their Level Of Malice.
Emotionally unavailable men arent usually trying to hurt others, even though thats what they can end up doing.
They enjoy pulling the strings of their loved ones and making them feel crazy.
Its almost a fun sport for them to criticize, belittle, blame and hurt someone.
The Idealisation, Devaluation, And Discard Cycle.
(which you definitely can!)