BUT when it comes to relationships it is not necessarily so.
You are not the only one involved.
When you are in a relationship that is troubled, there are two people there.
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As a result, the relationship isnt getting any healthier.
So, remember, when you are chiding yourself for giving up, dont!
There are two of you in this relationship and both of you should probably attempt to make it work.
You arent a superhero.
Yes, we have been told that we must never give up.
But sometimes, its time to do just that.
In spite of their Herculean efforts, they just cant make it work.
Recognize this about yourself.
Letting go of someonemight be exactly what it’s crucial that you do!
Is it just an excuse?
Letting go of someone is a very difficult thing to do.
Letting go of someone is hard but not impossible.
Would it be so bad?
Ok, so think about climbing a mountain.
The pain is awful and you arent sure you might go another step.
What do you do?
Do you keep going even though you know if you do you might not be able to hike down?
Or do you turn back, knowing that its the best thing for your mental and physical health?
Its the same with relationships.
Letting go of someone you love is one of the hardest things to do in the world to do.
The fear of the pain that you might feel is just too much to bear.
But letting go is not the same as giving up.
If you have someone who you gotta let go of, do so.
Giving up someone who is causing you pain is a sign of strength, not of weakness!
