The guy you marry will suddenly become that after meeting you.
When you meet the right person, thats when you change.
The guy you date doesnt talk about a future.
Nathan Dumlao
Everything about you guys is ambigious.
You take things as they are in the moment.
The guy you marry wants you a part of his.
It isnt even a question of if hell come to something with you, hell be there.
The guy you date will see how much he can get away with.
Hell test you and see what buttons he can push.
He wants to see how much youre willing to give even when he doesnt reciprocate things.
The guy you marry will meet you halfway.
The guy you date doesnt bother hearing about your goals and dreams.
He might be dating you but he doesnt want to do more than he has to.
The guy you marry will encourage and support you.
The guy you marry will indulge himself in everything youre involved in.
And if theres any way he get you there he will.
It is through his love and support you become twice the person you already are.
The guy you date is confident in himself.
Hes the one sometimes you like having on your side when you walk into a place.
But if someone were to ask you, if its serious youd say no.
The guy you marry wants to prove you could be confident in him.
The guy you end up marrying wants to show you off to everyone.
The guy you marry will have common interests that reflects who you are as a person.
Something that connects you both.
From there you build the future of your relationship based on that.
The guy you date cant hold a conversation.
Its the casual conversations or meeting up or making plans.
But there isnt substance to your relationship.
There isnt this emotional and mental connection.
The guy you marry wants to know everything about you.
The guy you end up marrying wants to know you better than he knows anyone in his life.
He makes an effort to care about who you are and why.
The guy you date will use fights as an excuse to leave.
The first fight hes out.
The guy you marry will work through the issue until it isnt one anymore.
He wants to work through this thing and figure out how to make it work.
He teaches you fighting doesnt always mean something is going to end.
The guy you date cares more about what you look like.
And as shallow as it might be the root of the relationship is that physical attraction.
The guy you marry cares more about who you are as a person.
There has to be physical attraction present but more than that there has to be an emotional connection.
The guy you date doesnt want to meet your family.
Not only does he not want to meet your family, you dont want to bring him around.
Sometimes the guys we date are simply that and we know itll never be anything more.
The guy you marry wants to know everyones names before he meets them.
The guy you end up marrying you introduce to your family with a lot of pride.
While meeting the family seems like a big step, hes the one who wants to take it.
The guy you date is always that what if in your mind.
The guy you date leaves lingering questions of what are you and what can you be.
Sometimes you each play with this idea of what it could be if things were different.
The guy you marry actually says the word marriage.
And it doesnt scare you.
The guy you date doesnt listen.
The guy you date hears what he wants to hear but often forgets the things you say.
The guy you marry remembers even the smallest details about you.
The guy you end up marrying remembers everything.
From how you like your coffee to your little habits you might not even notice.
And he loves all of it.
The guy you date will say youre clingy if you rely on him too much.
A lot of guys fear getting that close to someone.
They pull away when things get hard.
They duck out when something bad happens in your life.
They dont want to be that person for you.
The guy you marry will stand tall and be what you need during tough times.
The guy you marry is that strength when youre weak.
He holds you up when you cant seem to yourself.
And he doesnt look down on you if ever you fall apart.
The guy you date lets you pay.
The guy you marry would never let you do such a thing.
He realizes whats his will eventually be yours when you build a life together.
He also respects you enough to never want to make you pay for anything.
He takes a lot of pride in spoiling you.
The guy you date wont talk about feelings.
You talk about sports and where you are going out.
But he doesnt talk about how he feels about you.
He might like you.
He might like being with you sometimes.
But he doesnt like you enough to make you feel secure with how he feels.
Because the truth is you cant fake finding that IT in someone.
The guy you marry isnt afraid to say I love you first.
The guy you marry wants you to know hes completely in love with you.
Hell say it without even thinking twice about it because he feels lucky to even have you.
You look him in the eyes and you see the next fifty years in front of you.
