You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself because one day, you’re going to forget him.

It doesnt seem right to be upset at him and to blame him for the pain youre feeling.

Its unfair to hold him accountable for all your misery.

heartbroken girl, getting over someone who wasn’t yours, almost relationship, sad woman

Henri Pham

Because he was honest about not being able to commit in a relationship when you met him.

He told you upfront that he wasnt looking for anything serious.

He made it crystal clear that there would be no strings attached between the two of you.

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But you chose to fall in love with him anyway.

You were positive that hed change for you and hed ask you to be his official significant other.

And you pretended to be happy for him.

heartbroken girl, getting over someone who wasn’t yours, almost relationship, sad woman

Henri Pham

You held back the tears that were forming in your eyes.

You forced your smile and showed him how proud you were.

You wished him all the best, while your whole world collapsed inside of you.

He broke you into tiny pieces without even realizing it.

Because thetruthwas he was never yours.

They arent meant to stay in your life.

You have to believe that theres someone better whos coming in your way.

Theres a love story that fits perfectly for you out there.

And theres a right time for you to meet the guy whos going to be so sure of you.

You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself because one day, youre going to forget him.

Youre going to find someone who can replace him in your heart.

Youre going to feel the love that you deserve.

And youre going to feel at home in someone elses heart.

You dont have to feel embarrassed about loving someone who never had any special feelings for you.

Its okay if you became a fool in the name of love.

Its okay if you allowed yourself to cling to a false hope that someone gave to you.

Youre going to realize that hes not worth your attention anymore.

And youre going to learn that there are actually so many guys out there who are better than him.

He is not the only guy who can melt your heart.

He is not the only guy who can make you feel weightless.

And maybe he isnt really the guy whos destined to be your one and only.

Maybe one day you will find your right match, too.