These people are littered throughout our path in life.
Coming across them, and having to deal with them, is inevitable.
When we dislike someone, we simply disassociate from them.
God & Man
Instead of indifference, we feel rage.
Instead of disassociation, we feel obsession.
Lets say you strongly dislike your coworker for being lazy, or self-defeating.
Maybe you really cant stand your friend who seems totally obsessed with her appearance.
Perhaps there is someone in your life who seems overly-confident, like a know-it-all.
Sure, you disapprove, you empathize and you may feel strongly about what happened…
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But are you at the point where you cannot stop thinking about them?
Do you sit and run through everything that they said, again and again?
Do you mock them and bring them up all of the time?
Does everything you see that even mildly reminds you of them trigger you to have a response?
Of course not, because two different things are happening here.
you’re free to use this as an impetus for real change.
