Life is not happening to you, it is a reflection of you.
That which is painful can teach us where we need to heal.
That which is joyful can teach us where we are doing well.

God & Man
Life is not happening to you, it is a reflectionofyou.
Most assume the world is unfair and they are victims of its injustices.
But the outliers move in a different direction.

They begin to understand that the world is not targeting them.
Iyanla Vanzant said it like this: What we love in other people is what we love in ourselves.
What we hate in other people is what we cannot see in ourselves.
Our conscious minds are inherently limited.
Most of the work our brains do happens without our awareness.
(Some estimates suggest that the subconscious mind accounts for 95% of our mental and physiological processes.)
If you really want to know how well you are doing in life, take a look around you.
It is easier because it allows us to relinquish responsibility, and therefore, control.
Since everything is vibration it is you who is attracting these external situations to you.
That irritable person is mirroring that which exists within you.
But ultimately, the work is your own.
Understanding the law of mirroring puts you back in the drivers seat of your life.