He might be saying exactly what you want to hear.
He might be manipulating you into forgiving him.
You have to be cautious with your heart because second chances arent always a good thing.
God & Man
They dont always lead to a happily ever after.
Dont get blindfolded by love.
Ask yourself whether your love is worth the effort or whether its become too toxic to salvage.
The more chances you give the wrong person, the more leeway youre giving him.
Theres a chance he isnt going to learn from his mistakes.
Theres a chance he isnt going to change his tune for convince you to stay in the relationship.
Theres a chance hes going to repeat the same bad behaviors again and again in the future.
The longer you hold onto a relationship that is clearly not working, the more time youre wasting.
You could be single right now.
You could be out, exploring your options.
Or you could be working on getting to know yourself again, getting to love yourself again.
You shouldnt stick with someone simply because you invested X amount of time into them.
You should stay with them for deeper reasons than that.
Because they love you, they respect you, they encourage you, they inspire growth within you.
If thats not the reason youre staying together, maybe you should rethink that second chance.
