But listening is so much more than hearing the words your partner speaks.
Successful couples listen with their hearts, not just their ears.
Two people who see that theyre better equipped to tackle the world as a unit rather than apart.
Gabrielle Henderson
They are pillars of a home built on a foundation of mutual respect and shared values.
But what does that mean in a practical sense?
That they support each other emotionally and psychologically in all endeavors, personal and professional.
That they run pretty much everything by each other.
That they make decisions together.
That they defend each other against any naysayers.
Understanding
The truth is that its really hard to see things from another persons perspective.
We all live in our own heads, and each of us is the product of our individual experiences.
Lasting love is essentially one long compromise.
Your partnerwillmake mistakes, big and small.
Theywilldisappoint you more than once.
But they are only as human as you are.
Sometimes, it will bereallydifficult to forgive your partner.
But you cant let your egos triumph if you want long-term happiness.
Healthy couples own each and every single mistake they make.
Apology
In addition to admitting fault openly, healthy couples are committed to the art of apologizing.
They say Im sorry regularly, but they also go beyond that simple phrase.
After every mishap, they contemplate exactly how they can avoid making the same mistake twice.
They pledge to themselves to do better because they genuinely want to be a better person and partner.
Theyre also keenly aware of the difference between making half-hearted promises and demonstrating contrition through actual changes in behavior.
Underlying each day of your lives together will be a sense of appreciation for the others existence.
Healthy couples dont forget that.
Positivity
Being able to think positively is an important survival toolfor individuals and couples.
Thats a recipe for a healthier mentality and a healthier relationship.
Two people who inspire each other to transform negativity into positivity are far more likely to last long-term.
Think about it: How can you truly believe that someone loves you unless you love yourself?
People in healthy, lasting relationships are committed to self care.
The better you feel about your authentic self, the better equipped youll be to love another.
