If its putting you through hell, its not love.
Every day is a struggle followed by the burning question; is it better to stay or leave.
Will this person ever change or will it be more of the same?
Baraa jalahej
And its alwaysmore of the same.
Its because youre choosing to stay in a relationship that doesnt allow you to be yourself.
Youre constantly putting the other persons feelings and needs above your own.
Youre choosing to stay with someone who more often than not disappoints you instead of showing up for you.
Your communication is never received with respect and understanding and your boundaries are always taken lightly.
You get used to a certain destructive pattern and somehow it becomes your norm.
Maybe its infatuation, maybe its unhealthy attachment and maybe its codependency but its not love.
If it involves a great deal of manipulation and emotional abuse then its not love.
If its putting you through hell, its not love.
They know that youre one decision away from saying youve had enough and its time to say goodbye.
